مشاهدة النسخة كاملة : Open discussion نقاش مفتوح
جارة القمر
27-07-2008, 01:03 PM
This is a general idea and anyone can participate by choosing any idea to be discussed.
The idea of this topic is that we will choose any social, cultural, political or religious topic to talk about.
For example this time I will choose this topic
Sa’ada War
Do you think what the real reason behind this war is?
Is a political or sectarian war( Salafis against Zaidis)?
President announced that end of Saada war. Do you think that war is over forever?
Or
Do you think the end of the war was just a ceasefire agreement or rest and then the war will resume as usual?
What are the real reasons behind the end of the war?
I’m waiting eagerly to read your viewpoints. :)
السـلطان
27-07-2008, 01:21 PM
nice topic specialy about saada war
i believe that it is apolitical war
actually im wondering
why the government stop it
why when the army will destroy alhothe men the president stop the war
why when they in the end of there energy the army stop the fighting
till alhothe restart his energy to fight
are the president playeing with the nation bloods because his chair
i cant believe that but i think that
im really tired of thinking about this war
جارة القمر
27-07-2008, 08:09 PM
Thank you for your participation,
I am also really surprised from the declaration of President Saleh about the end of Sa'ada war
only by telephone call, the war was over!!!
why did not the president call al-Houthi since the very begiinning?
Tomorrow, i will add new topic to discuss and if you have a topic, you can add it
Thank you very much
اسير البعد
27-07-2008, 08:21 PM
it is good idea but I'm still thinking why is it only about sada War
If that topic will be installed
we will try to discuss about that
جارة القمر
27-07-2008, 08:26 PM
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, Aseer,
the topic is about anything (social, political, religious, historical event), you can put any idea, or you can discuss the previous idea which about Sa'ada war..
اسير البعد
27-07-2008, 08:30 PM
Ok thank you for clarification
you know I will create new idea to discuss about
Let me think
اسير البعد
27-07-2008, 08:41 PM
How do you think if we debate what people suffering from bad situations this time in yemen
the Poverty is going to spread there
and the situation is going to be in the less avarge
جارة القمر
27-07-2008, 10:42 PM
Okay, it is very gooooood idea to talk about poverty ...
the situtation here in Yemen is very bad and the poverty is very spread specially after the price rise..
the government has to adopt a good plan to face this problem otherwise the country will go from bad to worse
.......
Note: can you please put number before the participation... for example, my particpation was number (1) and your participation was no. (2)
because i have fogot to put numbers..
اسير البعد
28-07-2008, 04:29 PM
3)
ok that you said is right but _
President may be good to us but Set of two gangs thefts have stolen in our country is the reasons is which may be reason for this pain I heared the Permits of president to dealers in yemen that to make the price of Foodstuffs lower than they sell it
am I right
جارة القمر
28-07-2008, 08:31 PM
it is just rumour!!
nothing changes and nothing will be change!!
it seems that most of the members could not understand the idea of this topic... so i will change the topic into a social topic...
جارة القمر
28-07-2008, 08:35 PM
(4)
Early Marriage
What are the reasons behind early marriage?
What are the impacts of early marraige?
What are the solutions for this habit?
اسير البعد
28-07-2008, 09:04 PM
actually That is a big problem but whatever
we
cann't do anything in order to change this Phenomenon
that will be coming from our Parents
but as for me that is good
I don't think there are so many impacts for that
but may i will chang the topic will be as this
((marriage between Relatives
Am i right and the others reasons
will be following for this
topic
ok I'm gunna let you start about that
جارة القمر
28-07-2008, 09:42 PM
Okay, we will change the topic but not now,...
can you postpone it for tomorrow? in order to hear the viewpoint of other members about early marraige?
that will be coming from our Parents
but as for me that is good
I think Early Marriage is no goooooood at all, both the husband and the wife are still children and they can not understand what the marital life really is?!
i think early marriage has alot of impact:
first, the resposibility: we can not deny that the parents of the husband are supporting finincially their son and his wife.
second: children: they can't bring them up properly
third: later on, the husband will realize that he does enjoy his life, so he will think of getting married again.
اسير البعد
28-07-2008, 09:47 PM
Maybe you are right
That is exactly what you said
each other cann't enjoy their life
may i write my proposal t0m0rr0w
all right
اسير البعد
29-07-2008, 07:06 PM
As I promised
I"m gunna write what i have in my mind about this topic
you what is it
early marraige is sometimes good also sometimes bad but not perfect answer
you know it has many impects I think Jarah wrote some of them
and I have also more two impects
it has effected for the people who wants to marry early
second is
Hold the course of marital life
they are still children they didn't know what is the meaning of love
that we name it
marraige without love
marraige for break the life
if I have any mistake in which i said please tell me
finaly my best regards
جارة القمر
29-07-2008, 07:47 PM
Yes, i have forgot to mention these two important points..
thank you very much Aseer... Now you can add you topic... but please write No(5)
اسير البعد
30-07-2008, 05:42 AM
first of all good morning
secondly my topic today is
((marriage between Relatives))
there are some impacts for this topic
ok members let's go to start our discussion about it
maybe i will start
if I have time but if i did't write my discussion I will write it latter
جارة القمر
30-07-2008, 10:40 AM
(5)
Marriage between Relatives
What are the impacts of marriage between relatives?
What are the reasons behind the marriage between relatives?
What are the benefits of this marriage?
Are you with or against the marriage between relatives?
this is Aseer's Topic, we are waiting for your participations ..
عبود بن صالح
30-07-2008, 02:22 PM
Firstly the early maraige be unperfect maraige as marital home become weak because the leader
of it isn't a ripe so many masike will happened so the home mybe devided at any time.
thanks deaar all
السـلطان
30-07-2008, 02:37 PM
What are the impacts of marriage between relatives
its different from one to other the most important is love if they love each other no problem
What are the reasons behind the marriage between relatives
some times the families want their doughter to mary her cousin i think that is all
What are the benefits of this marriage
no benefits except the girl will stay in the family
Are you with or against the marriage between relatives
i am against relatives marriage
جارة القمر
30-07-2008, 08:08 PM
thanks all , i agree with you
I think marriage between relatives has a lot of impacts such as if there are problems between the couples, this will affect the two families
there is a lack of privacy in this marriage
there are also diseases
the only benefit, i see, is that the wife will feel comfortable if she gets married to someone from the family, becasue as you know, here in Yemen, most of the girls can not know their husbands before the marriage..
of course, I am completely against Marriage between relatives
اسير البعد
31-07-2008, 06:40 AM
hiii all
I'm gunaa put my participation today
firstly there is one note will be given to all
about marriage between relatives
the note is
These articles are not intended to either encourage or discourage marriage between close relatives.
They are intended to just dispel many myths spread by "others" with regard to the subject matter.
secondly
These medical reports are nonsense. You are quite right in saying that "I also believe that whatever our
religion preaches cannot be unhealthy". Absolutely true. I am so pleased to read this sentence from you
.
This must be the belief (Eiman) of every Muslim.
If it was harmful enough to cause such serious complication as congenital deformities, Allah would not
have permitted it and made it "Halal" unreservedly. You know very well that when Allah has
prohibited ( Khamr) in Quran, He says that there are benefits in it and harm (evil) in it and its
evils and harm are greater than its benefit , so don't go near it. I think to be congenitally deformed is far
far more serious than being intoxicated , if it were to be the result of marriage between close relatives, Allah would not have permitted it.
If it was harmful enough to cause such serious complication as congenital deformities, Allah would not
have permitted it and made it "Halal" unreservedly. You know very well that when Allah has
prohibited "Sharab" ( Khamr) in Quran, He says that there are benefits in it and harm (evil) in it and its
evils and harm are greater than its benefit , so don't go near it. I think to be congenitally deformed is far
far more serious than being intoxicated , if it were to be the result of marriage between close relatives, Allah would not have permitted it.
in the finally
what is your opinion my brother who will read my
participation
so if there are many mistakes here you just tell me
my best reagards
اخو سلطان
31-07-2008, 08:30 AM
What are the impacts of marriage between relatives
its different from one to other the most important is love if they love each other no problem
What are the reasons behind the marriage between relatives
some times the families want their doughter to mary her cousin i think that is all
What are the benefits of this marriage
no benefits except the girl will stay in the family
Are you with or against the marriage between relatives
i am against relatives marriage
Hi AL-Sultan
Hi all
?Whay you are against relatives marriage
I think it's better to get married from ur relative.
I see most of people who has got married form thier relatives are fine with thier familes, but if they have foreced to get married from thier reletive that won't be fine so this is the reason for most of people to abandon thier relative and get married from other .
My question is whay you don't like get married from ur reletive?
I wanna a good reason not excuses this question for all of u mareb mareeb.netmareeb.netmareeb.netsite members who against relatives marriage:cool:
اسير البعد
31-07-2008, 09:18 AM
there are some mistakes i have written here
Am i right
but some of you will undrestand what i mean
just i did it two times
'
Abn ashag
I think you have correctly given
your opinion about it
it is so fantastic what have you said
thank you a lot man
I'm still waiting the others
where is the neighbour of moon
اخو سلطان
31-07-2008, 10:38 AM
Hi aseer Alboad
It is ok thank u a lot my brother I need others feed back.
Best regards,
السـلطان
31-07-2008, 01:12 PM
ok
i will give my subject to see your opinions about it
my subject is Co-Education, Good or Bad?
When parents consider what school or univirsity to send their child to, they often first decide whether they should send their child to a single sex school or to a co-educational one.
I will see your opinions then i will give my opinion
جارة القمر
31-07-2008, 03:26 PM
Sorrrrrrrrrrrrrry Sultan, i will go back to your topic
I agree with you Aseeeeeeeeeeeer and Ibn Ishaq,,
There is no problem in the marriage between relatives..
But, my personal opinion is that I am against married between close relatives. i don't like this kind of marriage for the reasons that I have mentioned before. I will mention my reasons again:
There is no privacy,
If there are problems between the husband and the wife, this will affect the two families of the husband and the wife. So it is difficult to create problem inside your own family.
Another problem is that, there is a problem between the husband and the wife; the husband will abandon his wife, because, as you know, the divorce is very rare in the marriage between close relatives. This is no good, how could you live with someone, you don't want and at the same time, you can't get divorce.
Also, there is a bad habit, I think, here in Yemen, when the brother died, the second brother get married to the wife of his brother, in order to keep wealth inside the family, etc.
Aseeeeeeer, you have written a good article about this topic, I really like it. But, i did not say that the marriage between close relatives is Haram.
As for the deformities, Yes, there are deformities resulting from the marriage between relatives.. And no one can deny this fact, but these cases are very rare.
Allah is very merciful; He doesn't prevent people from getting married to their relatives.
I think I have written a lot.
This is very good Arabic article about this topic: http://www.werathah.com/genetic/consan2.htm
اخو سلطان
31-07-2008, 04:09 PM
Thank a lot Jarat Algmar
You are all right.
جارة القمر
31-07-2008, 04:22 PM
(6)
Co-Education, Good or Bad?!!
When parents consider what school or univirsity to send their child to, they often first decide whether they should send their child to a single sex school or to a co-educational one.
Are you with co-educational schools? or Not? and Why?
Which is better co-education schools or single sex school ? and why?
Please, mention whatever you want to enrich this topic with different viewpoints.
This is al-Sultan's participation
اخو سلطان
31-07-2008, 05:50 PM
Hi all
For me I prefer single sex sechool Because the co-education is forbidding in our religion this is why. This is my opinion.
Best regards
اسير البعد
31-07-2008, 07:15 PM
Sorrrrrrrrrrrrrry Sultan, i will go back to your topic
I agree with you Aseeeeeeeeeeeer and Ibn Ishaq,,
There is no problem in the marriage between relatives..
But, my personal opinion is that I am against married between close relatives. i don't like this kind of marriage for the reasons that I have mentioned before. I will mention my reasons again:
There is no privacy,
If there are problems between the husband and the wife, this will affect the two families of the husband and the wife. So it is difficult to create problem inside your own family.
Another problem is that, there is a problem between the husband and the wife; the husband will abandon his wife, because, as you know, the divorce is very rare in the marriage between close relatives. This is no good, how could you live with someone, you don't want and at the same time, you can't get divorce.
Also, there is a bad habit, I think, here in Yemen, when the brother died, the second brother get married to the wife of his brother, in order to keep wealth inside the family, etc.
Aseeeeeeer, you have written a good article about this topic, I really like it. But, i did not say that the marriage between close relatives is Haram.
As for the deformities, Yes, there are deformities resulting from the marriage between relatives.. And no one can deny this fact, but these cases are very rare.
Allah is very merciful; He doesn't prevent people from getting married to their relatives.
I think I have written a lot.
This is very good Arabic article about this topic: http://www.werathah.com/genetic/consan2.htm
woooooow great that what have written but it is not actually haram
but I don't prefer that to marry from someone who lives with me and eat,drink with me
but if we don't know each other
or we aren't like brothers that will be good and we should also know each other from far to far
so really you wrote good idea when you said that the brother died, then second brother get
married to the wife of his brother, in order to keep wealth inside the family
I strongly agree with you about that
I have seen so many situations specially in my Village
finaly sorry for the Intervention
I know you have changed the topic but
I have to reply
this Participate
سد مأرب
01-08-2008, 07:55 PM
ok
i,av read more of your comments and issues
jara algamer
you can write at any yemeni journals especialy Yemen times and Observers.
your topics are good and sure you can do that
اسير البعد
02-08-2008, 08:03 PM
(7)
Participate will be about
((true love and love admiration ))
who will discuss this topic and to give the critical points or sensitive points
I think the first one will be Jarah
waiting for all members to participate
جارة القمر
02-08-2008, 10:38 PM
ok
i will give my subject to see your opinions about it
my subject is Co-Education, Good or Bad?
When parents consider what school or univirsity to send their child to, they often first decide whether they should send their child to a single sex school or to a co-educational one.
I will see your opinions then i will give my opinion
I am with co-education and at the same time I am against it.
First, I have studied in co-educational school. It was very very interesting because there were always competitions between the boys and the girls and we, of course, won every time.
There is a kind of enthusiasm and competition. In the secondary school, we were separated, the teacher has allocated special class for the girls alone. Then, I have seen a lot of unaccepted things unfortunately. Every week, we hear a story about a girl or a boy.
So, I think there must be schools for the girls and special schools for the boys, because during the high school, person is still teenagers and this is very dangerous.
But, in the university, I really support co-education, because a person has become mature and rational, so he or she will be able to control his or her behaviours. He or she knows exactly what is right and what is wrong.
The co-educational universities are s good step to prepare the students to join the world of
work.
جارة القمر
02-08-2008, 10:48 PM
ok
i,av read more of your comments and issues
jara algamer
you can write at any yemeni journals especialy Yemen times and Observers.
your topics are good and sure you can do that
Thank you
But, we want to see your viewpoints about our topics or you can add any topic you want
we will wait
Ok
Of Course, you have no excuse because you can write in English :36_1_8:
My best
جارة القمر
02-08-2008, 10:51 PM
(7)
Participate will be about
((true love and love admiration ))
who will discuss this topic and to give the critical points or sensitive points
I think the first one will be Jarah
waiting for all members to participate
Okay, I will be the first one.
i write my opinion about this, but tomorrow, today it is too late
السـلطان
02-08-2008, 10:59 PM
good
you are really very great girl
what can i add
you say what i want to say such as copetitions between boys and girls is really very helpful
also when any boy study with girl he will be active and orgnise
also he will take care of him self
he well wear gentelly
also will smill nicelly
and every one of them will try to show the girls his ability
so im with co education schools at theuniversities
and i am thinking to study at sanaa university
do you know why
i visited it and i saw many girls studing there and iwant to try studing with girls
actually i will be very clever if i study with girls
thank you very much for your adding
my best regards to the most intelegent girl in our country
hunter
03-08-2008, 08:55 AM
we say not for the war in sada
and at the same time no for alhothy
i hope that the government wil finish this bad war
and kill all that dogs
سد مأرب
03-08-2008, 11:38 PM
ok Jarah
i will do that at other time
and write about several issues at our community and talking about our general concepts
جارة القمر
04-08-2008, 12:22 PM
good
you say what i want to say such as competitions between boys and girls is really very helpful
also when any boy study with girl he will be active and orgnise
also he will take care of him self
he well wear gentelly
also will smill nicelly
and every one of them will try to show the girls his ability
so im with co education schools at theuniversities
....
i want to try studing with girls
actually i will be very clever if i study with girls
you will be active, if there are girls
Oh, boys, you are really strange
Do you know that the competition between the girls only is very very strong
جارة القمر
04-08-2008, 12:28 PM
we say not for the war in sada
and at the same time no for alhothy
i hope that the government wil finish this bad war
and kill all that dogs
Thank you Hunter for your participation, there are also six other topic we want to read your viewpoints about them
Or you can put a topic to be discussed
جارة القمر
04-08-2008, 12:50 PM
(7)
Participate will be about
((true love and love admiration ))
who will discuss this topic and to give the critical points or sensitive points
I think the first one will be Jarah
waiting for all members to participate
True Love and Admiration
You know, by nature, girls don’t like to talk about this and I am one of them. These things represent a red line for most of the girls specially in Yemen and I am really happy with this habit.
But, because this is a discussion, I will not talk about myself at all and I will present some very general ideas that, I think, anyone believes on them. Love is the main thing in this life. You can’t live without love, whatever kind of love it is.
The meaning of love is different according to the situation. Inside your home, you love each member of your family. Among your friends and colleagues, you love them but this love is different from the love for your family.
As for admiration, I really don’t know about this. But, I think, you may admire, respect and like someone because he or she has done something that you think is good.
Sorry, I did not write a lot about this topic because it is not my cup of tea
اخو سلطان
04-08-2008, 01:16 PM
great people I'll be back
stranger
04-08-2008, 01:34 PM
True Love and Admiration
You know, by nature, girls don’t like to talk about this and I am one of them. These things represent a red line for most of the girls specially in Yemen and I am really happy with this habit.
But, because this is a discussion, I will not talk about myself at all and I will present some very general ideas that, I think, anyone believes on them. Love is the main thing in this life. You can’t live without love, whatever kind of love it is.
The meaning of love is different according to the situation. Inside your home, you love each member of your family. Among your friends and colleagues, you love them but this love is different from the love for your family.
As for admiration, I really don’t know about this. But, I think, you may admire, respect and like someone because he or she has done something that you think is good.
Sorry, I did not write a lot about this topic because it is not my cup of tea
Hi all......
Hi Jarah,
It is a good idea to know the difference between admiration and loove,love between man and women. Could you please foucuse the discussion into this point? this is because, I feel most of us don't know how to distingushe between, the real love and respections, like me :). Also, it would be great to know your ''and others '' Cup of tea /coffee :)
With my Best Wishes
جارة القمر
04-08-2008, 01:46 PM
Hi all......
Hi Jarah,
It is a good idea to know the difference between admiration and loove,love between man and women. Could you please foucuse the discussion into this point? this is because, I feel most of us don't know how to distingushe between, the real love and respections, like me :). Also, it would be great to know your ''and others '' Cup of tea /coffee :)
With my Best Wishes
First, welcome
where were you
we really want to read your view points about our topics and this topic Love and admiration is not my topic , it is for Aseer..
I really don't want to discuss this topic anymore because i have nothing to to add. and this topic is not my cup of teat (I mean i don't like it) this is the meaning of cup of tea.
really i respect all people here in this forum
we are waiting to reading your participations
stranger
04-08-2008, 02:10 PM
First, welcome
where were you
we really want to read your view points about our topics and this topic Love and admiration is not my topic , it is for Aseer..
I really don't want to discuss this topic anymore because i have nothing to to add. and this topic is not my cup of teat (I mean i don't like it) this is the meaning of cup of tea.
really i respect all people here in this forum
we are waiting to reading your participations
Thank you 'Jarah' for your Questions.
I will reply your Q's and write down my comments as soon as possible, but dont forget that :) the above problem is a high level one which must be addressed.
My Best Regards
جارة القمر
04-08-2008, 02:17 PM
I know, but i have expressed my opinion and i will read the opinions of all
اسير البعد
04-08-2008, 04:36 PM
True Love and Admiration
You know, by nature, girls don’t like to talk about this and I am one of them. These things represent a red line for most of the girls specially in Yemen and I am really happy with this habit.
But, because this is a discussion, I will not talk about myself at all and I will present some very general ideas that, I think, anyone believes on them. Love is the main thing in this life. You can’t live without love, whatever kind of love it is.
The meaning of love is different according to the situation. Inside your home, you love each member of your family. Among your friends and colleagues, you love them but this love is different from the love for your family.
As for admiration, I really don’t know about this. But, I think, you may admire, respect and like someone because he or she has done something that you think is good.
Sorry, I did not write a lot about this topic because it is not my cup of tea
the true love is that which gives you the ability to sacrifice with all what you own for those
who you love
and with out admiration there will be no love beacuse the love begins with admiration
my best regards
stranger
04-08-2008, 11:57 PM
First, welcome
where were you
we really want to read your view points about our topics and this topic Love and admiration is not my topic , it is for Aseer..
I really don't want to discuss this topic anymore because i have nothing to to add. and this topic is not my cup of teat (I mean i don't like it) this is the meaning of cup of tea.
really i respect all people here in this forum
we are waiting to reading your participations
Dear, JARAH,
First I would like to thank you for your hot welcome. Regarding your question, I was on a long journey which was about 18 h.r.s flying, and 5000 km car trip around the world. Hopefully this answer is enough for your Q's. Further, With respect to the above topic, I agree with you that it is not only my or your weakness points, but it is also the weakness of most people in the world, so that I said we must addressee it, but how?
Looking forwarding to your opinion and comments
جارة القمر
05-08-2008, 10:11 AM
Okay, stranger, we want you to start
please, present for us your opinion about this issue. I have talked about this isssue, and because, yo insist to discuss this issue, i want to start tallking about it and, maybe, i will add something.
By the way, are student or do you work?
اسير البعد
05-08-2008, 11:13 AM
who is going to put a new topic here
if there is no one maybe i will put it
and will be about study engineering
قلب شبوه
05-08-2008, 12:01 PM
wow
this theme s very wonderfull idea
but its very dificult to people who like me ^^
but i will try to give my opinion in english with all
my best wishs
جارة القمر
05-08-2008, 12:45 PM
who is going to put a new topic here
if there is no one maybe i will put it
and will be about study engineering
Okay, but what is your topic
جارة القمر
05-08-2008, 12:49 PM
wow
this theme s very wonderfull idea
but its very dificult to people who like me ^^
but i will try to give my opinion in english with all
my best wishs
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Finally, i found a girl in this topic!!!
Shabwa's Heart, i want you to put a topic to be discussed, i know you have a lot and i wnat to read your participations in this section.
قلب شبوه
05-08-2008, 12:58 PM
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Finally, i found a girl in this topic!!!
Shabwa's Heart, i want you to put a topic to be discussed, i know you have a lot and i wnat to read your participations in this section.
hiiiiiiiiii
you will find me every where ^^
sorry i cant but any topic because i am very week in english
but i will try to share my opinion in this topic ^^
اسير البعد
05-08-2008, 02:04 PM
(8)
my topic will be about
which is famous civil engineering or architecture
for example if you are student and you have to take one of them
what are you going to choose
??
قلب شبوه
05-08-2008, 02:08 PM
no one of them ^^
my manager in my unvercity it is
education in english ^^
stranger
05-08-2008, 02:54 PM
Okay, stranger, we want you to start
please, present for us your opinion about this issue. I have talked about this isssue, and because, yo insist to discuss this issue, i want to start tallking about it and, maybe, i will add something.
By the way, are student or do you work?
Hi All,
Jarah, Thanks for giving me the chance to talk about admiration, respecting, and love between man and women, in general cases. First of all, as gentlemen, I believe that we admire most people and sometime love the other party with no control!!!!! We can't exactly judge that unknown behavior directly. Later we may discover that we are in the wrong side, this is by time. In general, this might be regarded to unknown behavior, the complicated built in human nature. Further, may be the culture or religions play role in these cases!!!! These are only my thought which might be right or wrong, and may be used as a jamb up to the deep discussion of this difficult topic.
Looking forwarding to hear from all of you especially Jarah.
:biggrin:
For your Q's, I'm doing both at the same time. What about u!!
Best Wishes
الزبير اليماني
05-08-2008, 05:41 PM
Hi everybody
well, actually I have debate the day after tomorrow in my class and I want to practice it here before
As u all know that any debate has tow sides
the first side's motto is
life in prison is still life: Why should a killer live
The second side's motto is
Why do we kill people to show that killing people is wrong
Which side are you with and why
please don't use religion among this debate>>
جارة القمر
05-08-2008, 10:34 PM
Hi everybody
well, actually I have debate the day after tomorrow in my class and I want to practice it here before
As u all know that any debate has tow sides
the first side's motto is
life in prison is still life: Why should a killer live
The second side's motto is
Why do we kill people to show that killing people is wrong
Which side are you with and why
please don't use religion among this debate>>
Really, i did not get what do you want us to discuss
Could you please give use more clarifications
Do you want to talk about criminals and the reason behind killing them and why the criminal should live
Is that what you want to say?
That is really what i have understand and i will talk about them, but it is very difficult to exclude the religion. But in general, the criminal should be punished for what he has done because if we leave the criminals without punishment, the life will be absurd.
As for the capital punishment which is killing, this issue is very diffuclt to talk about, but i think the killer should not be killed, becasue we can forgive him if killed somebody by accident, but he should be killed if he killed somebody deliberately, I think, it is very difficult to pardon him or her.
If we implement the punishment, other people will take into consideration the punishment if they want to do something bad.
.............
If you add more clarifications about your topic i will be back to add something.
جارة القمر
05-08-2008, 10:37 PM
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my topic will be about
which is famous civil engineering or architecture
for example if you are student and you have to take one of them
what are you going to choose
??
I don't know which one is more famous than the other.
But, i really prefer to study architecture, I think, it is suitable for the girls, they have only to imagine and draw. I know it is very difficult, but the one who has a talent of drawing and imagination, it is going to be very easy.
جارة القمر
05-08-2008, 10:53 PM
Hi All,
Jarah, Thanks for giving me the chance to talk about admiration, respecting, and love between man and women, in general cases. First of all, as gentlemen, I believe that we admire most people and sometime love the other party with no control!!!!! We can't exactly judge that unknown behavior directly. Later we may discover that we are in the wrong side, this is by time. In general, this might be regarded to unknown behavior, the complicated built in human nature. Further, may be the culture or religions play role in these cases!!!! These are only my thought which might be right or wrong, and may be used as a jamb up to the deep discussion of this difficult topic.
Looking forwarding to hear from all of you especially Jarah.
:biggrin:
For your Q's, I'm doing both at the same time. What about u!!
Best Wishes
I agree with you "we admire most people and sometime love the other party with no control!!!!! We can't exactly judge that unknown behavior directly.Later we may discover that we are in the wrong side"
Yes, the religion and the culture and the traditons play an important role in controlling our behavious, specailly the girls. As you know all, it very difficult for the girls to talk about this.
stranger
05-08-2008, 10:56 PM
(8)
...................
for example if you are student and you have to take one of them
what are you going to choose
??
Well, if you are in a critical position that means you have to take one of them, I advice you to take Civil Engineering otherwise let me know. In addition, which University that you are planning to study in???
stranger
05-08-2008, 11:00 PM
I agree with you "we admire most people and sometime love the other party with no control!!!!! We can't exactly judge that unknown behavior directly.Later we may discover that we are in the wrong side"
Yes, the religion and the culture and the traditons play an important role in controlling our behavious, specailly the girls. As you know all, it very difficult for the girls to talk about this.
H8i Dear,
Also I agree with you that the culture and religion caused the problem. What is the solution from your point of view??
Thanks
جارة القمر
05-08-2008, 11:06 PM
I think we should not care about the traditions, but we must take into considerations our religious principles...
We should not be controlled by these tranditions at the same time we should consider that we live in very conservative society...
there are alot of contraditions that we should put in our minds
stranger
05-08-2008, 11:19 PM
I think we should not care about the traditions, but we must take into considerations our religious principles...
We should not be controlled by these tranditions at the same time we should consider that we live in very conservative society...
there are alot of contraditions that we should put in our minds
Well, Thanks teacher 'Jarah' for your valued point of views, and I wish to find more educated girls having the same thought…………….
In fact you have said what I have made, but the results were not enough. Most of girls misunderstand or couldn't be allowed to go ahead because most guys were not educated, or have followed the bad ways in dealing with girls. This is because they have not either followed Islam or others!!!!!
I feel we need more discussion???
جارة القمر
06-08-2008, 01:21 PM
Gooood Idea
(9)
Customs and Traditions
What is the meaning of traditions?
Do you allow for the customs and the traditions to control your behaviors?
Often, the traditions contradict with religion in most of activities, what are you going to do if you find yourself in such situation?
Adding any idea will enrish our discussion ..
I will write my point of view after i read yours :)
قلب شبوه
06-08-2008, 01:34 PM
التقاليد
every country have a pravate tradition^^
i think that is enghe meaning ^^
اسير البعد
07-08-2008, 01:59 PM
it is really important topic jarah has given
but now I don't have time to write my discussion
but i will try back
اسير البعد
07-08-2008, 05:31 PM
Gooood Idea
(9)
Customs and Traditions
What is the meaning of traditions?
Do you allow for the customs and the traditions to control your behaviors?
Often, the traditions contradict with religion in most of activities, what are you going to do if you find yourself in such situation?
Adding any idea will enrish our discussion ..
I will write my point of view after i read yours :)
tradition means:known as considered an element of the culture descent from the past to
present which is in the patterns of thinking and behavior and activities metered produced
by a working group to strengthen cohesion and self-awareness and accepted by the
membership as transmitted from one generation to another through socialization or
simulation without necessarily reflect those of The needs of present and without stem from
the social experience of its generations
as for me there are no effects of my traditions
also If it is going to take my behaviors down
I will not allow that thing happen with me
that is all things which I want to say
also if there is any mistake
just forgive me
my best regards
جارة القمر
11-08-2008, 09:50 AM
التقاليد
every country have a pravate tradition^^
i think that is enghe meaning ^^
Thank yo for yor nice participation
Only this ,,,,,no , i know yo can write a alot
i want to write everything about Yemeni tradition, I think you can write a book about this
جارة القمر
11-08-2008, 08:42 PM
Thank you very much Aseeeeeeeer for your wonderful participation
Traditions should not control our life
جارة القمر
12-08-2008, 06:16 PM
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Vice and Virtue Committee in Yemen
هيئة الفضيلة في اليمن
Are with or against such Committee?
Do we really in need for such committee?
What are the impacts of such committee on the society in general and in women in particular?
Here in Yemen, the implementation of law is still very weak, so how could this committee carry out its task in the society?
There a lot of religious extremists who may take the formation of such committees as a chance to do whatever they want. Does the state take into consideration how to curb such extremists?
We will be very glad to share ideas and viewpoints with you :).
جارة القمر
17-08-2008, 06:53 PM
Maybe, most of yo don't like this topic
So, i suggest that we change the topic because i really want the discussion to be continued...
so, please kindly, suggest any topic for discussion
اسير البعد
18-08-2008, 09:29 AM
all right Jarah
just change it I'm gonna reply it as soon as possible
Ok I will be wiating until you put the a new participation or new topic
ok
جارة القمر
21-08-2008, 12:50 PM
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I have an idea,; i suggest that we discuss the issue of stabilizing topics
what is your suggestion for that?
how could choose a topic that deserves to be stabilize ?
i have some topics that i want to stabilize but first i want to read your suggestion about that..
Thank you all
ابو غزاي
01-09-2008, 01:15 AM
thanks mis moon nighbor